For the New Widow — When the Whole World’s Ho Ho Ho-ing and You’re Thinking, SO WHAT!

With the Holiday season fast approaching, and everyone you know, and wish you didn’t, is making merry…

While you, the newly widowed, are thinking, Bah, Humbug…

Is it any wonder you want to scream, “Stuff a sock in it!” to that man on the corner dressed in a red suit, with a white beard, ringing a bell? Read more

For Widows Only - 5 Mistakes To Avoid This Holiday Season

It’s the holiday season, whoop dee doo, and you the newly widowed find yourself engulfed in mistletoe and smiling faces. Everyone’s singing a happy tune – Everyone but you – You wonder, how will I get through this holiday season without Him?

I’m here to tell you, you can. And you will. Read more

Suddenly Single? The 5 Stages of Grief

December 30, 2006 by Death of a Spouse  
Filed under For Widowers, Men and Grief

Death of a spouse or breakup of a marriage or long-term relationship can trigger similar responses in a person. Each person mourns a loss differently. However, there are 5 common stages of grief a person goes through when mourning the loss of a relationship. These were adapted from Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, ‘On Death and Dying’ Read more

Dating After Loss

December 29, 2006 by Death of a Spouse  
Filed under Dating, For Widowers, Life After Loss

Deciding to start dating again after a loss is a courageous and brave way to reclaim your life after the death of a loved one. There is no time limit as to when you should start dating again, or even a rule that says you must date again, but you will find that everyone, from your family to your neighbors will have an opinion on the subject. Read more